About Us

   I decided to write this blog of our journey to Male Chastity and submission  because much of what I found out there when we began researching seemed almost scripted. I wanted a real view of what happened within a couple's relationship when such a epic reversal of roles occurred. Many blogs I came across did not appear realistic or plausible... though I can't be sure lol. I found only a few that attracted me and seemed similar to our relationship. I found that I wanted to share our own experiences, fantasies, emotions and even our toy box! More than anything however, was the need to find others who shared our sexual proclivities and how this lifestyle has changed their relationship... hell it has changed our LIVES!

  My Pet and I have been married for more than 20 years. We are both in our 40's and have an active sex life that has evolved and changed throughout our time together... more recently delving into Male Chastity. For about the last 14 years we have engaged in pegging, minor restraint, spanking and sex toys. In the last year or so that has changed to encompass so much more.

   With my Pet buying an IPhone ( 2+ years ago) and his technologically challenged self getting access to the Internet, he has communicated to me more about his wants and desires. First it was just short videos, Tumblr pictures or quotes but soon became verbal requests. About a year ago he asked that he give up control in the bedroom and that I become the more dominant partner. This blog is about our experiences, fantasies and our journey both past and present.